Divorce and Custody Agreements: How to Navigate the Coronavirus Quarantine

            How do you successfully co-parent when you are also forced to quarantine? The spread of COVID-19 has divorced parents asking a lot of questions about how to stay safe and practice “social distancing” while also following their custody agreements. Here are some good tips.     

Stick to the agreement

While this may not be easy, try to follow the terms of the agreement as much as possible. These are stressful and changing times for everyone, which is why maintaining some form of stability can benefit both you and your children.  

Prepare for flexibility 

 With schools closed and activities cancelled, there may be certain aspects to your agreement that actually require change. That being said, both parents should be prepared to be flexible. Communication is essential. 

For example, if pick-up and drop-off typically takes place at your child’s school, you may want to establish an alternative location or agree to some other form of exchange. Regardless, remember that this must be a mutually agreed upon decision that works for all parties involved. 

Be safe

Given the contagious nature of the virus, it is important to avoid social contact if someone in your family presents with symptoms. This may cause disruption to your agreement, however, ensuring that the rest of your family is safe should remain a top priority. Fortunately, there are no shortage of virtual hangout applications that allow you to remain in isolation while also getting facetime in with your kids! 

Don’t forget the priorities 

Remember, it should always be about what is in the best interest of your children.